How To Be UnF*ckWithAble

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This is a motivating read to continue the next six months of 2023 with vigour and vitality!

How To Be UnF*ckWithAble

  1. Have written goals so you know what you want to accomplish and where you want to go.
  2. Let your life be guided by internal principles not external circumstances.
  3. Never take criticism from someone not doing better than you are. What the hell do they know?
  4. Internet trolls are losers, always ignore them. Never waste any time or energy on someone that has already made up their mind.
  5. You don’t have to prove anything to anyone but yourself.
  6. Be a life long student and don’t let your ego control your reactions when you have a lesson to learn.
  7. Always become competent in something before you try to be confident.
  8. Do not participate in toxic relationships with anyone.
  9. Emotions are great servants but terrible masters.
  10. Let logic, reason, math, and science be your guide through life.
  11. Diversify your life between finances, health, peace, happiness, relationships, and career so no one area can ruin the rest of your life.
  12. Cut your losses fast but let your winners run.
  13. You don’t have to listen to financial advice from broke people.
  14. You don’t have to listen to relationship advice from people that are not in a good relationship.
  15. You don’t have to listen to nutrition advice from unhealthy people.
  16. What people think about you is none of your business and they should keep it to themselves.
  17. You have nothing to prove to anyone if you have faith in yourself.
  18. Maintain multiple streams of income so no one source can control you.
  19. Be more valuable to your employer than they are to you.
  20. Always remember you can fire your boss just like he can fire you.
  21. Always value your time correctly.
  22. Have enough customers in your business so you can fire the bad customers.
  23. Diversify your investment portfolio so no one position can hurt you.
  24. Stay out of debt to maintain your freedom of choices.
  25. You always have a choice if you can accept the consequences.
  26. Don’t waste your life living it for someone else.
  27. Stay close to people who care about you and have your back.
  28. Some people will try to manipulate and control you for their own purposes, don’t let them.
  29. Don’t listen to people that have no skin in the game of your life. You have to live with your choices so you get to make them.
  30. Life is too short for bullshit.


My top 10 in the list are :

#1 Which I practice everyday. It’s my GPS.
#2 it’s all about your attitude. Your attitude shapes your behaviour.
#9 I need to remember this everyday to keep being better.
#11 Balance.
#12 Fail but fail fast and move forward with courage and faith.
#17 You have it. Own it.
#21 Time – we will never get it back .
#25 Is part of our growth.
#27 Know and recognise your tribe. Give back to them too.
#29 You just know. Trust yourself.

Sometimes you just have to say “F*ck You” to all the naysayers and live your life the way you choose.